Learning How To take resposibility and achieve what you want ~ an NLP & Hypnosis ArticleBy Paul, Joseph and Luke Clough
Take Responsibility for your life and achieve everything you want!
Are you ready? Really ready to get or create what you want?
What do you really want out of life? What are you not achieving that would make you happy?
‘Cause and effect’ is a way of thinking that a ‘cause’ (an action) will lead to an ‘effect’ (a consequence) Simple but never a truer set of words.
So ask yourself ~ what side of the equation are you in life? Be really honest with yourself…
Are you just an ‘effect’ of all that is around you? being an effect can be just an excuse we say to ourselves to let us off the hook.
For example do you know someone who says “everything happens to me” or “Bad things always happen to me” or “it’s just what life has dealt me”?
Well those are just examples of someone just being an effect of life, allowing life to have an effect on them, pushing all options of self change, outside of themselves. By thinking and acting in an ‘effect’ mindset, the person simply continues to re-affirms their situation – not having the life they wish.
Now, just for a moment, imagine if you move on to the ‘cause’ side of the equation, where you take responsibility for everything in your reality, your job, your relationship, your life, your issues in such an empowering way that you take control and start causing fabulous effects. It may be hard at first but just imagine this now.
Rather pushing your problems outside of your control (like being at ‘effect’), you now begin to own them; you take responsibility to start making important changes in your life. This in turn starts to create new empowering beliefs and thoughts knowing you have the ability to change your life I you desire.
What a buzz that would be. It would mean you can begin to own and create life changing effects to have a perfect life, relationship, job, money and health.
Only one thing ultimately stops us from changing…… ourselves. That's right YOU!
Its that plain and simple I’m afraid, it all comes back to us. It’s a bold statement but its true. By taking responsibility now for EVERYTHING and I mean everything, your health, your relationships, career and finances it means you own the situation. When you own the situation you can change it.
We are our only limitation, but on the other hand we can transform that to pure potential, to reclaim our thoughts, to develop empowering beliefs, to construct exciting new behaviours, to manifest our dreams and act out our destiny.
We don’t create a wonderful future by focusing on the past. You would never think to drive a car just looking behind you. Instead you focus on the big windscreen in front of you, to know where you are going and only occasionally look at the rear view mirror to be safe. I think life is the same, we can learn from the past, but our time is now – to live in the present and to focus on our outcomes and live them as if we had them now.
So why not take this time now, to take responsibility and reclaim your life back. After all we can choose life to effect us, or we can choose to see every thing in life to effect of us.
Remember you are not just a product of life; life is just the product of you!
Be your Potential.
Joseph Luke and Paul Clough
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